moonlitramblings sent: I have two really wonderful nephews. Being an aunt is really fun and really not hard. The point is not to overthink anything. Just love the kid and they'll love you back. When in doubt, just try and have fun with them. That's the good part of being an aunt--that's really all you have to do. Make sure they know you care about them and love them and everything will go fine. Congratulations! You'll do great.

Thanks! I look forward to it.

Friendly reminder that your characters don’t have to be likeable.

emmayrose sent: Aw, when you're an aunt you get all the fun benefits of being a parent but you get to send the kid home at the end of the day. XD I'm an aunt to my blood niece and her half-sister as well, and because I'm one of the younger "adults" in their lives, I get pulled every which way to play games and color and all that when they visit. They wear me out but there are cool moments too, like today when I taught the oldest to ride her bike without training wheels. Aunthood is unique experience - enjoy it!

Aww, I will!

theladygrace sent: Congrats on becoming an aunt from one to another! I have a nephew and a niece and it is the best. Luckily, when you get them, they are babies so you have plenty of time to figure this whole thing out before they are old enough to be scarred for life. Just love your sister's baby and be there for her and her kid. You'll be fine! Plus you get a baby to love on and cuddle but someone else has to do the dirty work! Best of luck. :D

Oh thank you! That means a lot!

ccballard sent: Never worry about embarrassment and be patient. Tonight during dinner I let a "ghost" that lived in the restaurant pull my hair about a million times, but my nieces' giggles every time I acted scared and confused was worth the sore scalp and strange looks from other diners.

That’s the most adorable thing I’ve ever heard, aww. Haha, I’m less worried, I’ll admit, thanks.

Anonymous sent: When they're older, tell them funny/embarrassing stories about yourself and their mom. One of the ways I connected with my nieces/nephews/godkids was by relating to them about when i was a kid and being the person that they could go to when they couldn't talk to their parents.

Oh I’ve got plenty of embarrassing stories about his mom, that’s for sure. Hopefully I’m doing this right. Thank you :)

princethorin sent: Give your niece/nephew shitloads of ice cream. Like, whenever they visit take them out for it. They will love you forever. Your sister might not, but who cares she has to love you because she's your sister

I can totally do ice cream—who doesn’t love ice cream?

how do I be a good aunt?? I don’t know the first thing about being an aunt.

Anonymous sent: I neeeed your help!

I know, I know! I’ve been absent, but in my defense, I found out my sister is pregnant, and my life’s been kind of hectic getting ready to be an aunt. That’s a big deal, right?

roxx4ever sent: I found your blog 3 days ago... I went through all of your blog. I'm a tiny-bit obsessed. And I'm kind of completly in love with you. Congrats on the amazing blog and personality

Oooooooh, thank you! That’s so sweet :) I can’t believe you went through it all!

janefriedman:

A Map to Get Out of Writer’s Block via NY Book Editors

janefriedman:

A Map to Get Out of Writer’s Block via NY Book Editors

inkskinned:

“I’m not suicidal.  I don’t want to die - I expect I will live for a while yet.  But, for some reason, I have written my will, and notes to loved ones.”

inkskinned:

I’m not suicidal.  I don’t want to die - I expect I will live for a while yet.  But, for some reason, I have written my will, and notes to loved ones.”

domino effect

dazery:

1.
Your best friend died last winter, and you wonder why you never had the courage to tell her you loved her.

2.
You stay awake every night and turn to the sound of shivering railway tracks and speeding cars on the freeway. From the tenth floor, your city looks like a minefield and your body looks like a burning building as the smoke fills the kitchen corners.

3.
When your neighbours called the fire brigade, they found you on the floor next to your bed. Your bones had turned to ashes, your skin had turned to sand, but they could still make out the colour of your eyes.

4.
They painted the walls of your room and moved out to live a thousand miles West, covering you in enough dirt to last you the rest of the forever you had left.

5.
My best friend died last week, and I wonder why I never had the courage to tell him I loved him.

subtitles for the last supper

ninelivesless:

I left the hydrangeas
on the table,
took Jesus by the hand
and played seven
minutes in heaven
in the hall closet.
The oohs and aahs
the disciples made
as they scratched
at the door
screaming “satan in a satin dress!”
did not deter
this son of god
from leaving a mark
on my neck